How to tackle when someone blames you unfairly?

 How to tackle when someone blames you unfairly?

What we mostly do when someone blames us without any proof, perhaps deliberately or unknowingly. It's obvious we will get furious at him/her. We began to argue with them and sometimes it may lead to a big fight. By doing this we will invite negativity and bad karma to enter into us.

I know getting blamed for the things which we have didn't do will hurt us a lot. We curse ourselves, curse for the day which had came in our life. This will be the worst feeling forever, for getting blamed without any crime. Though everyone has their own opinion but they too should find out the reason. Without reason don't blame anyone.

On this Gurudev says, whenever you have been blamed then instead of arguing and giving proof of your honesty, simply ignore them and move on. 

                

If someone has blamed you that you are a thief, then don't ignore them directly or don't say that let him have his opinion. First educate him and even if he don't believe you then ignore. If you directly ignore him saying let him have his opinion, I know I've not stolen anything then why I should get punished. If you do this, it shows your arrogance. It's better to educate and ignore and move on.